I'm a little bothered by my SS mother, she is asking for like 400$ a month in child support. It's not that I don't believe in us paying her CS it's just we have my SS 3 or 4 days out of the week. We told her we will help her out if she needs help with the child. I mean if me being free child care anytime she needs it. Or us taking him up to 4 day every week is she really entitled to that much? She is saying she will just take us to court and only allow us to visit him for the first and last weekend of every month and for us to pay the maximum.
I just want to say money aside, if you're a big enough bitch to care about getting money from your BD than your son seeing his father then you're a pos. My man is a good man, he works hard and does everything he can to be a good father. He's straight edge and did not throw his life away.
We are offering her the ability to ask us for items and us buy them. If she needs anything for him we will help out. I just don't think we owe her 400$ a month since we have him what seems like most the time.