SO has been working towards his dream job for the last 3 years. We had a deal that while he's in his school I bust my ass to pay the bills and once he gets out of school, and after 2 months of both of us working while he settles into his new job, then I can leave my job and go back to school while he takes care of the bills. It will be much less back breaking for him to care for the bills but one of us had to bite the bullet.
So I did because I would have to be in school longer than he would and it would be easier to have more money coming in while I'm in school for 6 years.
So now he's about to graduate. I've gone in and taken an entrance exam and getting ready ahead of time to start fall classes. He gets mad at me and asks why I'm applying to school. I told him because he's finished and after summer the 2 months will be far from over and I can start school. He says that he's not going to be paying all of the bills alone. I told him "I have been for the last 3 years. We talked about this. You will be making more than enough money to handle all of the bills and we'll be comfortable and after I get my degree we'll be set. LIKE WE PLANNED AND TALKED ABOUT CONSTANTLY THE LAST 3 FUCKING YEARS!!"
He says that I have a good paying job and shouldn't leave and it would be wrong of me to throw all the bills on him. I told him I can be making more in the profession I want to go for and we are to transition the paying of the bills in the months before I go to school.
So after all is said and done he says he will leave if I quit. I can't go to school and work. I work long and inconvenient hours M-F and they are not flexible. I already don't have enough time with my kids as it is. (They are not his kids)
What would you do?
I can move back in with my mom but I would still have to work and I hate living with my mom. We get along well as long as we're not in the same house for too long.