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tomorrow could kill me

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i'm sitting here chainsmoking, and stuffing my face with king sized candy bars and mnt dews. my kids are in bed, and i'm netflixing greys anatomy. its 11:30, and I should be asleep, but I cant sleep. we have a big day tomorrow. tomorrow is the day when I get put on trial. my kids and I will wake up early, and head to the courthouse, where I could lose them. I could lose my kids tomorrow, and it will kill me. I've spent the last hour, trying to decide what to wear. what will say " im responsible, please don't take my kids". a month ago, me and my mom were best friends. she stood next to me, defending my parenting in court against my ex and his family. tomorrow my mother will testify against me. how did we get here? how the hell did this happen? I don't know. I don't know why. I just know that my mother over the last week, has managed to convince people that i'm the next casey Anthony. i'm a mom who works full time. I don't have friends, I don't go out, I have had 2 drinks in the past year and a half. my kids are happy and healthy and straight A kids with perfect attendance. but I don't have money, and my exes family does. where I live living together unmarried is a sin. it doesn't matter if you have been best friends for 5 years, unmarried is an immortal sin. and I live with my boyfriend, unmarried. the allegations against us from my mother are horrific. they even used the word satanic when referring to how I punish my kids. im trying to be strong, smile for my kids, but my heart is beyond broken. I haven't cried, I haven't cracked. trying to breathe. cps is coming with me to court tomorrow. i'm praying its enough to save us. my mother, who is one of the most ungodly people I know, is at a prayer church meeting tonight. and then tomorrow she will go and take an oath. raise her right hand and lie about me. her only daughter. her best friend up until a month ago. its going to kill me. I don't know how to survive this.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 8, 2013 at 11:46 PM
Replies (31-40):
RainbowBrite111
by on May. 9, 2013 at 12:09 AM


You are crazy and I am done with you.

Quoting Anonymous:

We certainly don't want the kids to be in Forster home! But maybe their dad's house is smoke free and that might be a better place to live. Thank u!


Quoting RainbowBrite111:


While I disagree with smoking in the house, we cannot just start stealing children and sticking them in foster homes because of smoking. Give me a break.


Quoting Anonymous:

Chainsmoking in the house? Make sure people at court know that too. To me you don't sound like a fit mom on the surface!







Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 9, 2013 at 12:14 AM

Quoting RainbowBrite111:


Op - Don't worry about them. Seriously time to get ready. Did you read what I told you about what to wear? About not interrupting your mother? Etc? And the ped? Seriously, I don't care if your mother calls you a crackhead whore who allows her pimp to watch her kids, you do not interrupt her. You wait your turn, you keep your cool, you will have a chance to answer her. Don't call your mother any names. Keep CALM. Answer the judges questions. Think before you speak, seriously. If it sounds bad, change your wording. You can tell the judge you have never been a prostitute, but do not turn around and call your mother names. Let her be the crazy one. Seriously. The judge will see it if you give your mother a chance to show it. My father is a very high powered attorney one of the best, and he would give you the exact same advice I am.

Quoting Anonymous:

im not chainsmoking in the house. im on my laptop, we have wireless, and im running around like a chicken with my head cut off. with the front door open, yes, I can see the tv and hear it.




thank you so much. you are really helping, and i'm trying to calm down. thank you :)
RainbowBrite111
by on May. 9, 2013 at 12:16 AM


Your welcome. You can get through this. It'll be okay especially if you come out as the clear headed one, and you allow your mother to hang herself.

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting RainbowBrite111:


Op - Don't worry about them. Seriously time to get ready. Did you read what I told you about what to wear? About not interrupting your mother? Etc? And the ped? Seriously, I don't care if your mother calls you a crackhead whore who allows her pimp to watch her kids, you do not interrupt her. You wait your turn, you keep your cool, you will have a chance to answer her. Don't call your mother any names. Keep CALM. Answer the judges questions. Think before you speak, seriously. If it sounds bad, change your wording. You can tell the judge you have never been a prostitute, but do not turn around and call your mother names. Let her be the crazy one. Seriously. The judge will see it if you give your mother a chance to show it. My father is a very high powered attorney one of the best, and he would give you the exact same advice I am.

Quoting Anonymous:

im not chainsmoking in the house. im on my laptop, we have wireless, and im running around like a chicken with my head cut off. with the front door open, yes, I can see the tv and hear it.




thank you so much. you are really helping, and i'm trying to calm down. thank you :)



emeraldangel20
by on May. 9, 2013 at 12:16 AM

everything rainbow told you, do it.

RainbowBrite111
by on May. 9, 2013 at 12:18 AM

Another thing, wear deodorant. DO NOT wear perfume or body spray, just simply deodorant. Smell clean like soap. Not overpowering. I know this sounds weird but trust me here. Dont smell fruity or flowery or anything. Clean like soap and deodorant, and brush your teeth before you go. No bad breath, no stinky stuff, okay?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on May. 9, 2013 at 12:19 AM
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When this is over, take your kids far far away from all of them, the ex, your mother, everyone. Cut off all contact that is not court ordered. If your ex gets visitation, document every single bump, bruise, etc, with photos, descriptions and witnesses, but comply with the court orders. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on May. 9, 2013 at 12:20 AM
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Big chunk missing...and would a bad mother actually admit to it? No.

okeydokie
by Bronze Member on May. 9, 2013 at 12:21 AM
What in the world did your ex say to your mom to get her on his side?
RainbowBrite111
by on May. 9, 2013 at 12:24 AM


He must be a really good liar.

Quoting okeydokie:

What in the world did your ex say to your mom to get her on his side?



Snowpuma
by on May. 9, 2013 at 12:26 AM
I'm sorry for all that's happening, I'm sorry for your pain. Hoping tomorrow gives in your favor ((hugs))
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