This might be cold and heartless...but he isn't my problem anymore
My exdh is an alcoholic. It is extremely bad. He is never not drunk. He passes out drunk and wakes up drunk and drinks some more. He is also into drugs. I couldn't deal with it after rehab failed on more than one occasion, after he spent bill money, after being busted for cocaine, and so much more.
He is now living with his mom at almost 40. She called to complain about his drinking. Ya think? i have been telling you how bad it is for over a year. You wanted to ignore it. But here is the kicker.. he has no car and no license. She is buying the alcohol for him. She is taking him to get drugs. WHY? Because he is violent off of them.
Oh and did I mention he is on probation? So glad he isn't my problem anymore. I did what I could.