i yelled at my 4 yr old for peeing her pants. EDIT IN RED
i feel really bad about it but im at the point where i am just so unbelievably fristrated with potty training. YES MY 4 YR OLD ISNT POTTY TRAINED.
Ive been trying for 2 yrs to potty train her and nothing.
ill ask her if she has to go, she will tell me no. i take her to the bathroom anyways and sit her on the toilet and she still doesnt go, but will right after she will go into her room and pee on the floor or her bed. im going to have to hand wash her panties because she is going through them so quickly and i dont have money to do laundry. I know she has enough control that she can go on the toilet but she chooses not to. i dont know how to deal with a 4 yr old that wont use the toilet.
i reward her when she does go but i can probably count on 2 hand the amount of times shes used the toilet.
im really at a loss
It's been almost 3 days and she has had maybe 3 accidents. She's been in only panties during the day and has been doing well. She is realizing we are not putting her in diapers anymore other than at bedtime and is going into the bathroom on her own. No pooping on the toilet yet but we will get there.