my mom lied to me and had an abortion

[Anonymous]

Last year I had a devestating mc after trying to conceive for 4 yrs. My mother comforted me by saying she also had a mc too. She said she understood. Well a few weeks ago we were talking and she said when I had an abortion. .... I was shocked. I am an only child and have always wanted siblings. Granted my childhood wasn't the best I feel betrayed and cheated. She said she just didn't want another one. My personal beliefs are against abortion unless special circumstances. I have been trying to act like I forgot about it and it didn't bother me bc its my mother. I know all you prochoice people will bash but I don't care. That was my sibling.

[xomrs.chase]

:( *hugs*

[mygirls53]

It was your mothers choice. You wouldnt of even known if she hadnt told you. Get over it.

[Hanab818]

im pro choice but i wont bash. you are entitled to feel hurt and in all honestly i might as well for the simple fact that i was lied to. But it was her choice and there is really nothing you can do about it now. All you can do is talk to your mom and tell her how you feel and try and move past it.

[brownhoney21]

 

Quoting Hanab818:

im pro choice but i wont bash. you are entitled to feel hurt and in all honestly i might as well for the simple fact that i was lied to. But it was her choice and there is really nothing you can do about it now. All you can do is talk to your mom and tell her how you feel and try and move past it.

 

[RandiBear]

Just because she had an abortion doesn't mean she didn't also have a mc. She may not have lied and just be talking about different pregnancies....maybe?

[owl0210]

I had a typed out response but you deleted your other post, forgot to go anon huh? Anywho, you can either get past it or hold a grudge forever.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

No actually didn't realized it posted twice however deleted that one since the only comment was yours.

[owl0210]

I wasn't able to post my comment because it was already deleted by the time I hit submit.

Quoting Anonymous:

No actually didn't realized it posted twice however deleted that one since the only comment was yours.

[JennPearce]

Sorry :( that really stinks.

[Anonymous 2]

Quoting RandiBear:

Just because she had an abortion doesn't mean she didn't also have a mc. She may not have lied and just be talking about different pregnancies....maybe?