Well before his gf, exdh would come over and fix any repairs that were out of my ability. He still does but he tells me not to tell his gf because she will get mad.
Why?! We are NOT hiding anything. He comes, fixes the thing then leaves. That's it. The woman doesn't seem to have a mean bone in her body. I don't think she will give a damn if he is at his child's house fixing something.
He just has to make life difficult! Nothing can ever be simple with him. Ever.