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this has always been a no for me. what would you do? Edited (again)

Anonymous
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At the beginning i told my husband i will not be in a relationship with someone who is involved with drugs. Like last year i found a pack of rolling paper. Looked through his phone and he had asked this girl that he was spending the weekend with if he needed to get some. (This was after we almost broke up over him going up there without me over a weekend) i talked to him and denied it. He talked to her about and she denied it. Well i was snooping through his phone. And saw a text from her like 2 mos ago and she was asking him to buy her drugs for her pain. Wtf??? she even said get the stuff you got last year! They both denied it last time. Its not gonna be any different. What do i do?
Sorry i just realised i added a 3 im mobile so a little difficult. 2 mos ago

Just confronted him. He basically ignored me and said there wasnt much to say. He doesnt deny buying it and getting it for her and doesnt see the big deal in doing so and just keeps saying its been so long since hes done it he doesnt even remember how long its been. Im pissed he even got it. I just dont even know what to do. Im pissed. I feel slapping him upset his head.what the hell does he think? Why would i want him to even buy it! Stupid man. I dont know what to do. That was a deal breaker for me. I am so confused and angry
Posted by Anonymous on May. 11, 2013 at 2:55 PM
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Retrokitty
by Jasmyne on May. 11, 2013 at 2:57 PM

I would be fine if my SO smoked weed but he doesn't. In your situation that sounds a little odd, being truthful is a big thing in my relationship.

LyTe684
by Ruby Member on May. 11, 2013 at 2:57 PM
Are you really taking about something that happened last year? You're still with him right?

I don't get it.
LyTe684
by Ruby Member on May. 11, 2013 at 2:57 PM
True. I have a bigger issue with alcohol. Lol.

And no I don't smoke or drink. Lol


Quoting Retrokitty:

I would be fine if my SO smoked weed but he doesn't. In your situation that sounds a little odd, being truthful is a big thing in my relationship.

LucyMom08
by BS Intolerant on May. 11, 2013 at 2:58 PM
Wait, you're mad about something that happened 2 years ago? I'm confused...
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 11, 2013 at 2:59 PM
Quoting LyTe684:

Are you really taking about something that happened last year? You're still with him right?

I don't get it.


yes he got it last year and lied about it
Now 2 mos ago she is asking for him to buy it again.
I am not going to be with someone who does drugs
i just found the text today
mstricey
by Gold Member on May. 11, 2013 at 2:59 PM
You saw a text from almost 2 years ago?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 11, 2013 at 2:59 PM

No drugs allowed over here. 

My hubby knew from the first day he met me that since I had my son I don't and won't do drugs of any sort ever again - and I won't be with someone who does. Which includes "occasionally" and all that crap!

Retrokitty
by Jasmyne on May. 11, 2013 at 2:59 PM

Yea I hate alcohol. Both DF and I don't drink and I don't see us drinking in the future.

Quoting LyTe684:

True. I have a bigger issue with alcohol. Lol.

And no I don't smoke or drink. Lol


Quoting Retrokitty:

I would be fine if my SO smoked weed but he doesn't. In your situation that sounds a little odd, being truthful is a big thing in my relationship.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 11, 2013 at 3:00 PM
Me too...

And, why is he spending the weekend with another girl?


Quoting LucyMom08:

Wait, you're mad about something that happened 2 years ago? I'm confused...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 11, 2013 at 3:00 PM

Ok you saw a text from 23 months ago?

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