Three weeks after they moved in together, i noticed that my god daughter was being left at her grand mothers house for days on end. I found it odd because mom does not work nor go to school. Shes a SAHM, so why leave her so often. Then the grand mother told me that the mom asked if my god daughter can LIVE there because C doesnt want her. I was disgusted... youre going to give up your child because your bf doesnt want her???? I spoke to mom about it and told her that i couldnt understand why was she even considering it. Her child should come first. They broke up for a few weeks...but they are back together. C has my god daughter in day care ALL .day long...until six oclock at night while mom is literally sitting in the apartment all day long. He says its so they can go out to eat for lunch without my god daughter and then when they pick her up at six shes only in the way for two hrs. In the way????!! Seriously. Now today was mothers day, i called to go give mom a gift and she tells me, "oh im not home. Im at Cs apartment all weekend and i sent J (my god daughter) to my sisters." I flipped... do you even WANT to be a mom? Youre choosing this man over your child??? Wtf?!? She responds, "im doing whats best for me. It doesnt matter what you want..or what my daughter wants. Im going to be with C so she has to deal with it." ... shes two yrs old!!! Are you kidding me?? Her bday is later this month with a large party. Mom wanted us to pay for FOUR cakes. One large one and three side cakes totalling in almost three hundred dollars. I told mom that im not going to the party and will not pay for the cakes and i really need to distance myself from her. I lost all respect for her and i cant have someone i have no respect for in my life. i feel so sorry for my god daughter, i just cant have someone that would do that to their child around me. Ugh vent over.