I sit and read lots of posts on here and I am amazed at people. I guess you really can't make up these stories that I read, but, WOW, people are messed up these days and some of these posts are unbelievable. Doesn't anyone have a normal family life with a husband that works hard, tends to his wife and kids, doesn't go out all night, and is totally committed to just one person? Where do you ladies find these men that cheat, abuse, go out all night, etc? Why do you feel compelled to stay with these men? What has happened to values, morals, and respect ?