I recently moved in with my adult DD, 25. I just recently had a hip replaced and my physical therapist suggested I use swim as exercise and to help heal my hip and make it more fluid. Well once my DD heard that she moved me right in. Shes got one of those above ground pools and she had her BF build a ramp for me so I can swim while she's at work. Her house only has one full bath and a 3/4 bath off the master so she let me take her room so i dont have to walk far to use the bathroom. She was very caring and accomodating to me. Everything is great so far, expect that fac that her BF stays over and she foes in at all times of the night and sometimes not at all. I can hear them have sex and having him sleeping with my DD under the same roof as me when they're not married is disgraceful If he's not over here sleeping with her, she's at his house or partying somewhere till 1-2 o clock in the morning. She smokes weed in her bedroom and she and BF are all over each other like teenagers. I can tolerate the drugs and partying, but i cant tolerate him sleeping with my child less than 20 feet from me!
I told her how I felt last week and she agreed to try to be a bit more quite coming in, but she said she wasn't going to tell her BF that he couldn't come over anymore. She's stuck to her word and I can't hear them anymore but he still is sleeping in her bed and getting all the free milk he wants. I don't think she understands how disrespectful she is. At this point it's going to have to be him or me.