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How would YOU feel? *please take my survey*

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Question: How would you feel?

Options:

I would feel uncomfortable with it after that long and ask them to chill out.

No i wouldn't mind.

I would feel weird but I wouldnt say anything since he isnt cheating

I really have no idea.


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Put yourself in this situation. And tell me how you feel you would react.


You have been best friends with a girl for 10 years. You have been married for 6 years. You have all been friends throughout school and still to this day remain close. Also they were friends in high school before there was ever a relationship-which wasnt until after they all graduated She is over almost every weekend and you know 100% that they dont do anything sexual of that nature. They are huge hockey fans and go to games together all the time since you dont like them. At these games they will go a little early(parking and beer) watch the game(a couple hours long) and then go get a bite to eat afterwards(so a total of 6 hours+)Again, you trust them both. Lately you have noticed they have been talking a lot, like all day everyday. Nothing inappropriate, nothing but just random chit-chat and stupid pictures of cats and cars and what have you. Now, they both have SO much in common. More than you and him have together. Would you feel like it would be inappropriate if this went on for a month +? Even though nothing at all sexual or "bad" was ever said.
Would you feel like it could possibly lead to an emotional affair since its been constant contact for a while?



Let me just say it again. 100% Know without a doubt they are not currently cheating.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 14, 2013 at 1:16 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 14, 2013 at 1:19 AM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 14, 2013 at 1:19 AM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 14, 2013 at 1:20 AM
Come on help me out so I can give my friend some advice! Cause I really dont know what I would do!
Lizardannie1966
by on May. 14, 2013 at 1:21 AM
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If you're starting to feel uncomfortable with their friendship, speak up.

It could be something completely innocent but you're not feeling completely comfortable and this needs to known.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 14, 2013 at 1:21 AM
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they could be cheating. youre not there so you really dont know

ChevronOwls
by on May. 14, 2013 at 1:21 AM
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I wouldn't care. My husband and I have a ton of friends. Some are women and some are men. It doesn't matter to us.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 14, 2013 at 1:21 AM
Quoting Anonymous:

they could be cheating. youre not there so you really dont know

No again... let me say you know 100% without a doubt they are NOT cheating.
summerbear
by Silver Member on May. 14, 2013 at 1:22 AM
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I could see where there is potential for an emotional affair to happen.
DieselsMom
by Gold Member on May. 14, 2013 at 1:22 AM

There is NO way to know that they are not cheating....it is inappropriate if ANYONE feels uncomfortable!

valeriesmom1112
by Silver Member on May. 14, 2013 at 1:23 AM
Im sorry but none of that would be fine with me. I know some women may be ok with that but no if you're uncomfortable than speak up. It will only get worse
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