He has really bad joint problems and right now his knee is three times its normal size. I feel so bad for him. He hasn't come to bed for two nights, just been sleeping on the couch downstairs. I miss cuddling with him. I wanted him to go to the doctor today to get it drained but he said no. We have an appointment with his gastroenterologist in the morning but they can't do anything for his joints. Should I go down and sleep on the loveseat or stay in bed? I'm 9 months pregnant and can't get comfortable anywhere anyway. Just so sad for him.