See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
How does it affect your relationship with your SO if they do? Does he know they don't like him? How do holidays work? How does it affect your relationship with your parents?
I ask because my mom HATES my SO. We had some problem LAST year, I vented ( stupid me) to my mom about them and she can NOT let it go. She only focuses on that. Not that we worked them out, not that he has changed since then, not that we are a happy, healthy couple. She wont give him the time of day. She wont allow him over for holidays, so I go alone. We got into an argument about him on mothers day, and she once again brought up the past, and then said that, "I care more for him than I do her". o.O We are still a fairly new couple, been together a little over 2 years. He is who I want to spend the rest of my life with tho. The only issue is my mom and how draining she is when it comes to my relationship. She doesn'tsee how it bugs me and in fact pushing me away from her. I want to have the love of my life in my family'slife, I don't want to always choose between them. KWIM? Not to mention it kinda hurts his feelings.