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Do you think phone sex is cheating?

Posted by on May. 14, 2013 at 9:38 AM
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Sex Confession: Wife Gets Frisky on Phone With Husband's Friend

by Michele Zipp 

telephone"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Answering the phone is something we all do just about everyday. But one woman took her phone calls to a whole other level. Carrie-Ann* is a married mom of two pre-teens. She's been with her husband for "a thousand years" she says -- but really it's been nearly two decades. Her married is solid but a few months ago something weird has been happening on the phone with one of his friends. Something a little X-rated and totally wrong. But she loves it. I'll let Carrie-Ann explain.

It's so crazy this even happened with one of Roger's* best friends, but it did. And nothing else happened, I swear. All of the talking takes place on the phone. One day a few months ago Chris* called for Roger but he wasn't home at the time. We started talking like we usually do but there started to be a flirty tone somehow. I was talking about gardening and he said something about getting dirty and maybe my mind was in the gutter or something. Then a few days later Chris called again and Roger wasn't around again and there was definitely some major flirting going on. He told me how I must look so sexy working in the garden. I assured him I didn't but he went on to compliment me and I will confess that it really turned me on.

I hardly ever see Chris. Roger usually meets him after work or they do their thing on the weekends here and there. Chris is divorced -- not seeing anyone that I know of at the moment. We've all been friends for about six years now.

The calls continued. He even started calling when he knew Roger wasn't home. They got naughtier and naughtier and though I've never really touched myself while we were talking, I told Chris I was. They are the dirtiest, sexiest conversations I ever had with anyone and I feel terribly guilty but I also don't plan on ever acting out anything that was ever said between Chris and I. But I realize it's still a form of cheating. It would kill my husband if he knew. And now I don't know how to stop.

What do you think? How should Carrie-Ann end this phone sex affair she's having with Chris? Do you think it's cheating?

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starlight91
by on May. 14, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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I do think it a form of cheating, but lets face it, if she was getting at home what she needed, she wouldnt have been so receptive to it...

Yes it the same as men, if they are happy at home they wont need to look else where...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 14, 2013 at 9:41 AM

YES!

vegaswife2011
by LMAO on May. 14, 2013 at 9:41 AM

Yep

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 14, 2013 at 9:41 AM
I do not think it is cheating.
Mommyzlovez
by on May. 14, 2013 at 9:42 AM
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If it is with anyone else other than your mate, then yes I do, I mean even if its not physical there are several types of cheating but they all lead to the down fall of that relationship. The same thing if its on FaceBook, a multi-player game, instagram...etc.

taramac
by Platinum Member on May. 14, 2013 at 9:42 AM
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Definitely cheating. Having sexual thoughts and expressing them to a person other than your dh/so is a betrayal to the relationship.
KyMom24
by on May. 14, 2013 at 9:42 AM
Yes, cheating
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CorpCityGrl
by Platinum Member on May. 14, 2013 at 9:43 AM

Yes!

TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on May. 14, 2013 at 9:43 AM
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Yes, it's behind her husband's back
StrangeDays
by on May. 14, 2013 at 9:43 AM
Yes it is.
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