Now I'm gonna prove it! ExSO is demandimg I mail him the crap he left in my home. He turned into a manipulative, controlling asshole, thankfully quick into the relationship so I was able to get out and not be screwed over. Needless to say he whined and cried like a baby at first and has been a doucbag since. I have not responded to any of his douchey behavior, until now. I am mailing his crap back in a Pampers box because babies need diapers and I am wrapping the package up in an entire roll of duct tape as a final "Fuck you asshole". Childish I know, but it's making me laugh.