I found out I have a brain tumor almost 6 months ago, and two weeks ago i found out that the tumor grew. I experence headaches that I am bed ridden for up to two days. I dont sleep good at all and I just dont feel good. Well I live with my mom right now and she has back problems and has arthritus. I massage her back for her. Make sure she takes her medicine and also do everything for her while i live here. I am not looking for her to wait on me hand and foot, but i just wish she could understand that I also dont feel good and have my own medical problems. She always puts me down and says "Well i deal with this everyday and i dont complain and blah blah blah" I Just wish my mom would understand what i am dealing with is totaly diffrent then what she goes through. I would be happy if she would ask me if i feel alright that would make my day. I know im rambaling i just feel like i get pushed to the side all the time, and I cant leave because I take care of her and I would never leave my mother since she needs me. I just wish she would be a mom and not try and put me down or tell me im complaining.