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i wouldnt get a job even if my husband asked me to

Anonymous
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I feel that it is my job to stay at hone and cook and clean and be a housewife. Now that my daughter is in school I'm here when she gets home from school and I would be here if she needs me for anything. When I found out I was pregnant I told my husband I would not work because my job was staying home to take care of my baby no matter what.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 16, 2013 at 9:33 PM
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Pink.Sunshine.
by on May. 16, 2013 at 9:34 PM

Hey, you're entitled to stay home if you want.

KairisMama
by Emerald Member on May. 16, 2013 at 9:34 PM
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 Okay, that's great as long as it's financially feasible. ;)

Cdaly12491
by on May. 16, 2013 at 9:34 PM

That's all good and well for you.

Personally, I'm not cut out to be a SAHM. I did it for 2 years and it's just not for me.

And some people just can't afford to be a SAHM.

Mrs.Bryant1201
by Platinum Member on May. 16, 2013 at 9:34 PM
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Cool story bro.
qslaqhay
by Silver Member on May. 16, 2013 at 9:35 PM
Good for you
LilliesValley
by on May. 16, 2013 at 9:35 PM

I guess. whatever you need to do, but if you needed to couldn't you get a part time job while your daughter was in school if you had to? Mltn you won't have to but, yeah, shit happens.

briansmommy2010
by Ruby Member on May. 16, 2013 at 9:35 PM
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I would hate to be your husband, and I can't imagine not helping the man I love by taking some of the financial burden from him if he asked me to.

Would you make him work two or more jobs, and never see his children, rather than you getting a job, if that's what was needed to keep your family afloat? If so, you sound like a very selfish individual.
NaC413
by on May. 16, 2013 at 9:36 PM
I'm a SAHM, but ill never understand women who want to be sahms. Theres nothing wrong with doing it...I just don't get it. Good for you and your family if that's what works well for you all.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 16, 2013 at 9:36 PM

What would be a reason he may ask you to? The first thing to come to mind is financial. Are you telling me that you would let your family fall into financial ruin so you can fulfill a wish you had when you got pregnant? Situations change

Mommy2b2many
by on May. 16, 2013 at 9:37 PM

 How does he feel about you refusing to work even if it is needed?

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