He's allowed to come around and see him, but only if he comes to my house. He has past drug use, well actually current drug use. He's dating someone who abuses drugs.
He abused me throughout our relationship. One time he choked me so hard, while I was holding our son, until I passed out.
I know I have good reasonings for doing what I do.. but I feel guilty. I feel like im robbing my sons relationship with his Dad. And that DS will end up hating me for it. :/
I also feel like maybe if I was a little more flexiabke, he would come around more. I don't know, im stuck. I don't know what the "RIGHT" thing to do is anymore.