I wish I knew how to get ahold of my XH's GF. XH came over last night to drop off the CS and we had a few things to talk about regarding our DD and her behavior lately.
We were standing outside, my boys were out there with us. There is absolutely NO sexual attraction(or any type of attraction on my part to him AT ALL, I've moved on.. been with the same guy for over 4 years and currently pregnant) He leaves and I go inside to put the boys to bed. (DD is at her gmas, its 'his' weekend)
So I'm laying down with my boys, when my text alert goes off. It's a message from XH. and I quote "Ok so I'm curious, if I told you I wanted a bj and it'd stay just between us would you do it or would you say no?"
Now me being the hot head I am, was thinking. $^&(&*@# OOOHH HELLL *(&#@%#* NO ARE YOU &*(*$%@ HIGH?? But my logic got the better of me and I simply said, I wouldn't do it.
His response? Sorry that wasn't supposed to go to you, don't know what happened there. (the g/f before his current one had the same name as me)
Me: I doubt that was going to A (his g/f)
Him: No its someone else
Me: I figured if you are living with A. (they JUST moved in together 2 weeks ago)
Him: Well I found out some things the other week, so I'm just exploring options.
Now I've meet his current GF years ago, when she was dating XH's cousin (cue banjos lol) and she seems like a really sweet girl. She moved 2 hours away from her family to live with him, and has 2 DDs of her own. She really deserves to know what an SOB he's being (and this is NOT new behavior for him at all) I just have no way of contacting her to let her know.