my daughter pulled her pants down at school.. wtf do i do?
first of all no she is not being molested, touched, etc im the only one that ever has her unless she is at school.
second of all this has been going on for a week and im at my wits end i need advice not bashing.
my dd is 6, in kindergarten, and just started a new school a few months ago. when she first started she told me boys were pulling their pants down in front of her. the teacher addressed it then it stopped. then last week some girls pulled their pants down in the bathroom. apparently she did as well.
she got punished - i grounded her, took her 30 minute daily TV time away, etc.
got a call on wednesday about her exposing herself. she had to discuss it with the counselor. we discussed it at home. i did not yell, though i wanted to. i told her how serious it was and how they could take her away from us if she acted that way.
this morning before she left i talked to her about NOT showing ANYONE her private areas.
i just got a phone call from the school social worker saying that she was in the bushes with 2 boys and the boys were exposing themselves to her. she said that they were pressuring her to do the same, and she did.
i have taught my dd to be responsible for her actions so i dont care that the other boys did it or that they were pressuring her. her actions were deplorable to me and i dont know what to do.
im so embarrassed and distraught. she will be home from school in 2 hours and i have no idea what to say to her. we have had this discussion every day this week til i was blue in the face. she was grounded, had extra chores, etc.
i dont know what to do.