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Im in a huge pregnancy dilemma

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Im almost 2 mos pregnant

I am considering an abortion

The dad is not wanting to have a baby either but said he doesn't want to be left out if I do decide to keep it

In a way wish he would just be like, "I won't be there either way" just so I can feel more pressure to have an abortion but I don't have the pressure.  Its all up to me. 

We had to get a condom from his dad because we forgot ours and the condom was too small and it busted.  No I was not on any other birth control.

Im just like....UGGHH  WTF 

this is almost surreal and I don't know how to begin to organize my thoughts.  

Should I just call him and tell him I don't think I can do it?  idk idk....I really don't want to have the baby.  I really really really don't.


I really want to go smoke a bowl, get high and light up a cigar, kill all this stress but then I'll feel too guilty if I decide to keep it.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 17, 2013 at 10:31 PM
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mommy_dearest_
by on May. 17, 2013 at 10:32 PM
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have it and give it to me!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 17, 2013 at 10:33 PM

I don't even want to be pregnant, its not just about a baby.

Quoting mommy_dearest_:

have it and give it to me!


isaiahbellamom
by Silver Member on May. 17, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Birthright has resources 1-800-550-4900
isaiahbellamom
by Silver Member on May. 17, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Birthright has resources 1-800-550-4900
firebird78
by Lilly's mom on May. 17, 2013 at 10:34 PM
I just don't know what to say in situations like this
I hope you do what you feel is right for you
mommy_dearest_
by on May. 17, 2013 at 10:34 PM

 I've always been taught that is you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't even want to be pregnant, its not just about a baby.

Quoting mommy_dearest_:

have it and give it to me!

 


 

mommy_dearest_
by on May. 17, 2013 at 10:35 PM
1 mom liked this

I worked at a birthright! I love them 


Quoting isaiahbellamom:

Birthright has resources 1-800-550-4900


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 17, 2013 at 10:38 PM
I would say get counseling ASAP before abortion to make sure it is what you want.
paganmommy4
by on May. 17, 2013 at 10:39 PM

then make an appointment monday morning and have an abortion. I support your decision and so you shouldn't be forced to be pregnant, the end

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 17, 2013 at 10:39 PM

I have kaiser, do you think they have counselors for this?

Quoting Anonymous:

I would say get counseling ASAP before abortion to make sure it is what you want.


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