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Proper names for "private parts"?

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Do you teach your children the proper names for their's? I've been talking to DS (3) about the other name for his "peepee". He's now in the bath yelling "penis...PENIS...PEENIS...PEEENNNIISSS!" I think this may have backfired a little lol
by on May. 19, 2013 at 12:48 AM
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almondpigeon
by Ruby Member on May. 19, 2013 at 8:43 AM
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That's funny. My oldest daughter was almost 3 when I was pregnant with her younger brother. She would tell people, "my mama has a baby in her belly...when it comes out, it will squeeze out of her VAGINA. Isn't that crazy?!"


Quoting wyomom4:

 When my niece first figured out that boys are different and had a penis, she asked everyone she saw if they had a penis... even strangers. LOL I thought my sister would die from embarassment.


3xangel
by *Angelicious* on May. 19, 2013 at 8:50 AM


Quoting An0nym0use:

Yep.

Proper names here.
jendawgrox2004
by Gold Member on May. 19, 2013 at 9:11 AM
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I say it but I don't make a big deal about it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on May. 19, 2013 at 9:23 AM
We say PEPPER because my oldest shouted PEEEEENISSSS in front of the old ladies at Publix years ago. My youngest now calls it pepper. I learned. My niece calls her privates her hoot, and I don't know where that comes from. The proper name is vulva, of course, because vagina is on the inside. If your vagina is on the outside, then you need to hit the ER fast.
Bauxite-17
by on May. 19, 2013 at 9:25 AM

We call it a weiner. But he'll know its a penis too. Hes not even two yet...

mom2many747
by Momma Duck on May. 19, 2013 at 9:26 AM
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Penis and vagina for sure. I read a study a few years back that showed children who had been molested but didn't know the proper names for their private areas were less likely to see their abuser behind bars. That was enough for me to correct peepee and bubbies (breasts) to penis, vagina, and breasts or boobs.
3JuJu3
by Platinum Member on May. 19, 2013 at 9:37 AM
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Yes.  If you don't make a big deal of it, they'll get over it.  I'd rather my kid be yelling "penis" than "peepee."  Also, I read an article that says if children know the proper name for their body parts it's more difficult for sexual abusers to shame them into silence.  They can describe what the abuser did more clearly. 


As part of the growing movement to implement abuse prevention in schools and other youth-serving organizations, Rohdenburg and other educators believe that teaching what linguists call “standard” dialect for body parts — rather than euphemisms and colloquialisms — is important. Teaching children anatomically correct terms, age-appropriately, says Laura Palumbo, a prevention specialist with the National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC), promotes positive body image, self confidence, and parent-child communication; discourages perpetrators; and, in the event of abuse, helps children and adults navigate the disclosure and forensic interview process. [...]

“We don’t want kids to think they’re going to get in trouble by asking questions about sexual matters and health,” Palumbo says. When officials pull a teacher into an investigation or escort a legislator from her state house floor for using the word “vagina,” or a parent removes a child from a class that uses the word “penis,” children are more likely to think their questions will get them in trouble, she says. This shuts down communication, reinforcing the culture of secrets and silence perpetrators rely on for cover.

http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/04/the-case-for-teaching-kids-vagina-penis-and-vulva/274969/

LoveNaCupcake
by Platinum Member on May. 19, 2013 at 9:48 AM
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Hahaha would that be closd to a dutch oven!?!


Quoting BestestMom11:

Lol! Gives new meaning to a fluffer-nutter sandwich!


Quoting LoveNaCupcake:

Hahaha I dated a guy who wasnt allowed to say fart, they called it fluffing. like WTF? O.o



Quoting Jennyanne322:

We use penis and vagina. I had a friend in college that called her vagina a tutu. I was not allowing that to happen.







3JuJu3
by Platinum Member on May. 19, 2013 at 9:50 AM
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Speaking of proper names, when my son (who was three at the time) saw his baby sister naked for the first time he refered to her as having a "front butt."

Acid
by on May. 19, 2013 at 9:52 AM
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Yes we do. Silly names for them are stupid...and totally useless.
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