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So my friend calls me tonight telling me that she was raped. I rushed over to her house and see if she wanted to go to the DR. and make a report to the police. She tells me she is scared because they won't believe her. So she tells me her story.

She was at this party with her guy friend, she is known to be a big flirt, she will flirt with anyone and i have always told her that one day it will get you in trouble it is not the perfect world that we would like it to be. She never listens, well tonight she was doing her thing but this time she takes it too far. She starts kissing on this guy and telling him she wants to take him in the room just doing whatever she can to get a rise out of him. I mean grabbing all over him she leads him to the room and starts dancing for him and kissing on him doing everything so when he finally gets down to sleep with her she tells him no but from what she said she was on top of him and he just stuck it in and just went for it.

By this time I am mad at her because I know the guys she is crying rape on and he is not like that he has not been with too many girls he is kinda shy and has had a huge cruss on her since the beginning of school. I told her she needed to take responsibility for this because you instated this and at the very last second right as he is about to put it in you want to stop. She gets mad at me saying that he violated her and I am like you just about raped him yourself. I told her one of these days all this flirting and stuff will bite you in the butt. and I just left. I can't be friends with someone like this she is calling me as I am writing this but enough is enough. She is about to ruin this guy because she can't keep her clothes on. I don't condone rape but if you are being stupid like this come on.


Edit:

Ok so I just got done talking with the guy and her and she made the whole thing up. From what I can gather from him and witness she tried to get him to sleep with her but he refused. He did go into the room and she gave him a bj and he left. I taked to her and she finally admitted that she was not raped but just pissed off at him becasue he would not sleep with her. Ugg Now I am never going to tak to her again.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 19, 2013 at 2:08 AM
Replies (11-20):
SageAdvice
by on May. 19, 2013 at 2:20 AM

 I'm really partial to green myself. It's always been a favorite of mine.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 19, 2013 at 2:21 AM

Knowing her she problay did not say anything until after the fact it's hard to believe her half the time because she will say anything to get out of trouble.

Quoting Anonymous:

She's a cunt, and what she did is messed up beyond belief, but she told him no and he did it anyway, she was raped.


TattedReader
by on May. 19, 2013 at 2:21 AM
agreed unfortunately :/


Quoting Anonymous:

She's a cunt, and what she did is messed up beyond belief, but she told him no and he did it anyway, she was raped.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 19, 2013 at 2:22 AM

Does she have any physical damage? Bruises, scratches, etc?


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't know but knowing her she might have just slept with him and is now calling rape. She is just the type to do that.

Quoting Anonymous:

So she was on top of him and he stuck it in? Did she say no after he put it in?




Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on May. 19, 2013 at 2:22 AM
Similar story.

I have a not so friend anymore who always told this guy she wanted to fuck him but never didx , made out, invited him to her parties and such. Last party she tells him to wait in her room, she shows up, puts on lingerie for him, makes out, gives him head then when they stated having sex she changed her mind cause he wasn't very good at it and she accused him of rape. Her uncles a cop so you can imagine.

She even told rm this and expected me to just go with it! It's rape cause she didn't want it... Anymore?

I get it a no is a no. A drunk yes is a no. A yes now can be a no later but just because he wasn't good? I would take if as a loss, call it a pitty fuck and never call him again! After over a year of trying to get him. Guy was a virgin we were later told. Way to ruin a man.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 19, 2013 at 2:23 AM

Nope nothing is wrong with her. only messing hair thats it

Quoting Anonymous:

Does she have any physical damage? Bruises, scratches, etc?


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't know but knowing her she might have just slept with him and is now calling rape. She is just the type to do that.

Quoting Anonymous:

So she was on top of him and he stuck it in? Did she say no after he put it in?





AuntieM
by Silver Member on May. 19, 2013 at 2:24 AM
I like green too. And that looks like a very peaceful place.


Quoting SageAdvice:

 I'm really partial to green myself. It's always been a favorite of mine.



lenashark
by Ruby Member on May. 19, 2013 at 2:25 AM

It doesn't matter if she flirted and kissed him, no means no, she said no, he should have stopped, he didn't, thats rape. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 19, 2013 at 2:25 AM

She's right, no one would believe her, smh.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 19, 2013 at 2:28 AM

WoW Just Wow....and this is the prime example WHY rapists go unreported. BLAME the victim. SMART. NO means NO .... it does not matter if his dick was so hard it made a tent. She did said NO.

Granted your friend needs to realize to not welcome danger , but no woman deserves getting raped for any reason.

You are despicable.

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