Before children I was always tighter. I don't know why it's just the way my body is. Sex has always been uncomfortable but usually bearable (I do enjoy sex) well after I had my son things went terrible down there.
My son had a 14in head and the dr wasn't in the room. I tore so bad I even tore my rectum. I was sewn up and that was supposed to be it. 6 months later I still could not have sex it was so ungodly painful! Went to a gyno turns out the sew job was awful I had a cyst the size of a marble and the dr couldn't even get his finger in there!!
So I had surgery all restitched the whole 9 yards. Well now I'm even tighter! Ouch! My son I'd now 17 months old and I'm still in do much pain after sex. I'm typing this as I sit in a bath to help with the pain.
I know this is long and personal and kinda embarrassing but has anyone else ever hone through this? Any advice at all???