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Anonymous
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To stop child support do you have to be married to stop it or can you be together and go to court to stop paying child support?

Posted by Anonymous on May. 22, 2013 at 4:28 PM
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WifeyC
by Platinum Member on May. 22, 2013 at 4:29 PM

If it pays through the state you have to file to have it stopped.  If you are on state aid they won't stop it.

Why are you stopping it?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 22, 2013 at 4:37 PM

I want to stop it because i want it stopped. I dont want him to pay it.


Quoting WifeyC:

If it pays through the state you have to file to have it stopped.  If you are on state aid they won't stop it.

Why are you stopping it?



WifeyC
by Platinum Member on May. 22, 2013 at 4:39 PM

That was obvious.  Why shouldn't he support his child?


Quoting Anonymous:

I want to stop it because i want it stopped. I dont want him to pay it.


Quoting WifeyC:

If it pays through the state you have to file to have it stopped.  If you are on state aid they won't stop it.

Why are you stopping it?





lnrmom
by Ruby Member on May. 22, 2013 at 4:39 PM

Call the CSE office and ask them how to drop the case. If you are on PA of any sort, you can't.

Pink.Sunshine.
by on May. 22, 2013 at 4:40 PM

You can't stop it unless the person that originally brought the order, decides to cancel it or..the kids reach 18.

PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on May. 22, 2013 at 4:41 PM

You may not have a choice.  In my state, the non-custodial parent pays child support whether the custodial parent wants/needs it or not.

Not_A_Native
by Ruby Member on May. 22, 2013 at 4:43 PM

 


Quoting Anonymous:

I want to stop it because i want it stopped. I dont want him to pay it.

 

Quoting WifeyC:

If it pays through the state you have to file to have it stopped.  If you are on state aid they won't stop it.

Why are you stopping it?

 

 

In many states you don't have a choice.  The non custodial parent pays until the child reaches 18, or in some cases, is out of college.  Why in the world would you not want your husband to support his child(ren)?

 

Domestic.Godess
by on May. 22, 2013 at 4:45 PM
If you did not receive state aid you can stop it. Just call the office and they will send you forms to sign.
metalmomma86
by Gold Member on May. 22, 2013 at 4:45 PM
If you get any type of PA, CS won't stop even if you want it to..
Why should.he not have to support his kid anyway?
-_-
by Ruby Member on May. 22, 2013 at 4:47 PM
Get a DNA test to show he's not the father afterall. Might help.
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