...annoy the shit out of me! Its expected out kf a teen mom but once you've moved out, your baby should spend more than just 2days/nights a week with you and the father. i understand a babysitter for work. but when someone else has your kid on christmas, easter, mothers day, the child's birthday, etc then you are no longer considered a mom in my opinion. all you did was carry and deliver. someone else is raising her.