My bff has always had a rocky relationship with her mother. About 2 years ago she started trying to get pregnant. She had to have 4 procedures before she got her BFP. Well in between the 3rd and 4th they got into a HUGE fight. Her mom sent her some horrible texts, which she forwarded to me because she needed someone to talk to.
This is what her mother said.
"It's hard to be supportive when I think your making a mistake by trying to get pregnant. It shouldn't be that hard, so I believe God is trying to tell you something. "
"God will never give you a baby because he knows what you are!"
"You stupid cunt! I can't believe what a bitch you are! Forget my #. I don't need to have a stupid cunt ass daughter bitching all the time. I hope you drop dead!"
So, this all went down in October of last year. She had the fourth procedure in the end of January and it worked. She is almost 21 weeks and found out yesterday, she is having a girl.
I put on FB, "Congrats to my bff! Just found out she is having a girl!" Her mom messaged me an hour later, "Who is pregnant?" I told her she needed to talk to her daugter because I didn't want to get into the middle of it. Then told my bff she asked that. Bff said I could give her mom her new number. I did, they talked.
My bff, just texted me. "I'm bawling my eyes out. She called, we talked about the baby, but she still never apologized to me for the crap she said."
I could slap her mom! She sent me how sorry she was and that she just wanted to talk to her daughter again, but then doesn't apologize to her. I even sent her, "She wants to talk to you too, she just needs to hear an apology. All she ever wanted from you is a simple, 'I'm sorry'."
AND she STILL didn't apologize. Grrr!