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Came out to my brother and this is what he said...... EDIT I told my dad

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I told my brother I'm bisexual. Haven't told anyone else. Waited for his reply and.....

"I am proud of you for being true to yourself and I am so happy that you felt comfortable enough with me to tell me! "

I love my brother so much :) He is just freaking awesome


EDIT

I was talking to my brother and he said ""That reminds me. I would never tell anyone, even dad, but if you wanted to tell dad about your orientation I don't think you would regret it. He is very open minded. He considers himself agnostic and it would probably feel good to have the acceptance of at least one parent. :) "

I knew that was true, and took that to heart and told my dad tonight and asked him if it bothered him.... He told me hell no and said he was proud of me for being comfortable enough to tell him. :) Then he sent me links to two churches local to where I live that accept everyone with no discrimination. He said "Kid, I'd love you if you were trisexual. It doesn't matter at all. You are you, regardless of whom you love." His acceptance brought me to tears - but happy tears :)

Just wanted to share :D


Posted by Anonymous on May. 23, 2013 at 8:26 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 3:16 AM

My mom would flip too... then she'd disown me. Lol. I'm not sure how my dad and stepmom would react. For now I'm not going to completely "come out" I'm only telling those closest to me.

Quoting CaiZobug:

:D That's awesome. I told my mom and she flipped. My dad doesn't care and supports me. :D


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 3:17 AM

Thank you :)

And I'm sorry :( It's definitely a sensitive subject to say the least. Is there anyone that you've told?

Quoting MomAmy77:

That is awesome good job. I'm glad you have support . Mine wouldn't understand 


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 3:18 AM


Quoting layawatling:

Good man!

Yes he is :) We've always been close. I love him so much :)

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 3:19 AM

Thank you :)

Quoting Anonymous:

Good for you. I agree - be yourself, be proud. Much love & support to you.


xomrs.chase
by Ruby Member on May. 24, 2013 at 3:22 AM
O.o dafuq?

I'm bi. I've received no backlash from those who are gay or strait.

You know how I knew I was bisexual? Because I have the natural, physical urge to have sex with both men and women. I was 18 when I realized this. Some people are better at looking in than others.


Quoting Anonymous:

As someone who actually IS bisexual I'm just going to put it out here that it takes a lifetime of experience, confusion, loves, exloves, and losses to classify yourself as a bisexual. Do you have any idea about BEING a bisexual? Bisexuals are more hated than gays! The straight community hates you for being gay (at all) and the gay community hates you because they think you're just giving them a bad name. It's extremely frustrating! 

In fact in high school and well into my early twenties I never told anyone I was a bisexual, I just told them I was gay. 


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm divorced from an abusive man. While I'm still attracted to men, I'm not comfortable being in a relationship with a man right now. I've always been bi-curious though and was with a female friend, things happened... lol. I've been with her several times and enjoy it more than being with men.



Quoting Anonymous:

What makes you think you're bisexual? What experience have you had?




Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on May. 24, 2013 at 3:26 AM
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It's so nice to be accepted huh?  You have an awesome brother.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 3:36 AM
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That's me :) I've just never acted on it until recently lol. Like I told a previous poster, I never acted on it growing up because in my house it "wasn't acceptable", then I was married to my now ex husband and would never think of cheating when I'm in a relationship.

Quoting xomrs.chase:

O.o dafuq?

I'm bi. I've received no backlash from those who are gay or strait.

You know how I knew I was bisexual? Because I have the natural, physical urge to have sex with both men and women. I was 18 when I realized this. Some people are better at looking in than others.


Quoting Anonymous:

As someone who actually IS bisexual I'm just going to put it out here that it takes a lifetime of experience, confusion, loves, exloves, and losses to classify yourself as a bisexual. Do you have any idea about BEING a bisexual? Bisexuals are more hated than gays! The straight community hates you for being gay (at all) and the gay community hates you because they think you're just giving them a bad name. It's extremely frustrating! 

In fact in high school and well into my early twenties I never told anyone I was a bisexual, I just told them I was gay. 


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm divorced from an abusive man. While I'm still attracted to men, I'm not comfortable being in a relationship with a man right now. I've always been bi-curious though and was with a female friend, things happened... lol. I've been with her several times and enjoy it more than being with men.



Quoting Anonymous:

What makes you think you're bisexual? What experience have you had?





Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 3:36 AM

Thank you :) I think so too. And yes, it is, very :)

Quoting Anonymous:

It's so nice to be accepted huh?  You have an awesome brother.


LovingParent08
by Bronze Member on May. 24, 2013 at 3:39 AM
1 mom liked this
That's awesome! Kudos to your brother!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on May. 24, 2013 at 3:40 AM
Quoting Anonymous:

Wow how can you say she is not bi sexual? Do you know her do you know how she feels?


I am bi sexual, my first sexual experiences were with females. I love the feel of a woman's body against mine. Yet I married a man. I have been with 2 girls and my husband. I consider myself bi.

I have never got Shit about being bi from gay or straight people.
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