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Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Yesterday I went and got my nails and eyebrows done. My hair was in a messy pony tail, I had a comfy PJ pants and dh work shirt. I went into the Safeway and got hit on 3 times. I was like wtf do you see how I look? I told them sorry and kept going my merry way. I thought it was strange. Wouldn't a guy want to hit on a women who has on nice clothes, hair done and makeup on. And yes the guys were cute. If I was single I would of gotten the numbers lol.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 24, 2013 at 8:29 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 9:09 AM
I would hit on you also lol


Quoting brandydesiree:

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Yes. I get hit on more at the gym than any where else.



This is what I look like at the gym, no make up, hair in a ponytail or messy bun and usually sweaty.

brandydesiree
by Platinum Member on May. 24, 2013 at 9:10 AM
Awww, thanks! *blushing*


Quoting Anonymous:

I would hit on you also lol




Quoting brandydesiree:

Mobile Photo

Yes. I get hit on more at the gym than any where else.





This is what I look like at the gym, no make up, hair in a ponytail or messy bun and usually sweaty.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 9:11 AM
Lmap I love your replies


Quoting ErikaRobin:

Once.  Recently.

I looked absolutely awful and he looked waaay too young and all I could think was "What the hell is wrong in your mind that you would hit on a 41 year old woman in a ponytail poppin' tags at Goodwill?!"

I wasn't as flattered as I was disturbed.  lol.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 24, 2013 at 9:13 AM
They probably figured you have no self esteem and you'd be an easy lay.
ErikaRobin
by Platinum Member on May. 24, 2013 at 9:13 AM

lol.  Aw.  Thank you.  I don't think my social filter works when I'm online, so I tend to be a little ...out there. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Lmap I love your replies


Quoting ErikaRobin:

Once.  Recently.

I looked absolutely awful and he looked waaay too young and all I could think was "What the hell is wrong in your mind that you would hit on a 41 year old woman in a ponytail poppin' tags at Goodwill?!"

I wasn't as flattered as I was disturbed.  lol.



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LucyMom08
by BS Intolerant on May. 24, 2013 at 9:14 AM
The only time it's ever bothered me was when I was pregnant...that was just awkward and slightly creepy...
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 24, 2013 at 9:15 AM
This is what I think too


Quoting Anonymous:

Getting hit on doesn't mean you're attractive or someone they want to date. They may have saw you as an easy mark because you obviously didn't appear to care about your appearance they may have felt you wouldn't care about strange either. 

Also, what you may consider getting hit on, may actually be them being nice or having a conversation. Unless a man specifically asks me for my number or asks about my marital status I don't take it as being hit on. 


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by Ruby Member on May. 24, 2013 at 9:16 AM
Mostly when I had a messy lunch. Food all over, broccoli in my teeth....
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 9:16 AM
I'm far from a easy lay and I do have self esteem thank you though


Quoting Anonymous:

They probably figured you have no self esteem and you'd be an easy lay.

EntrepeneurMom
by The Major on May. 24, 2013 at 9:17 AM
Yep. All the time. I look better with natural makeup but I do brighty colors because its part of my look :) I'm kind of a grown up glitter goth.
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