she officially claims she hates me.
i took her ipod the other day while she was at school.
i was goin to get pictures of her and her friends off it to add to her high school scrapbook ive been making her.
i found great pictures of her and her friends.
however, to my shock and dismay i also found naked pictures of her.
apperantly she had been sending them to some boy at school.
when she got home i confronted her and demanded to know who they had been sent too.
i then made her sit with me as i called the boys parents to inform them. (there were photos she had recieved of him too)
i took her phone. kept her ipod. and shes allowed no access to the computer.
shes grounded for atleast 2 months. no going any where with friends etc. even after she is no longer grounded she will not be getting her electronics back until i feel i can trust her again, which will be quite a while.
when shes ungrounded she will have acess to the home phone. also when she is ungrounded she may visit with friends either at home with me or dh present or at a friends house or with a friend somewhere with a parent is present.
i also informed her friends parents.
because i have a hunch that dd isnt the only girl sending pictures. after seeing the photos i read her messages which lead me to believe her friends are doing this too.
so according to her i have 'humilated' her and ruined her life..
sil told me that dh and i are bein to harsh on her. and that we shouldve been nicer.
that WAS me bein nice. she should consider hes self lucky that i wont be forcing her to live without any modern conviences for the entire summer.
if she cant use her devices correctly then shes not gettin them. shes lucky she has ANYTHING left in her room.
and damn lucky i didnt beat her ass.