OK so my parents split when I was 3. My mom was with a wonderful man who she is not with anymore but is still like my daddy. I call him daily and always send him pix of DD and whatnot. My father was with a wonderful woman who also is no longer with but I talk to her all the time. So my father married a woman when I was 8 years old. Carol. She was at the time not that great to me..or so I thought. Now as an adult I look back and say OMG I treated her like an evil stepmom when all she did was want the best for me. At 14 I went to live with my father and stepmom and we REALLY did not get along at all. However now looking back I realized it was my fault. She also had no children and did not really know how to handle me. Anyway I had my gall blader removed 2 years ago and she made my father take 2 days off from work and drove to the hospital over an hour away from them just to be by my side. That Christmas she sent a HUGE box of gifts for DD.One for me the rest for DD and that was fine with me(still have the jammie set my step mommy got me) Well we had a small falling out that summer. I then learned in August she had gotten her stonach stapled(whatever it is now) and she got an infection and was very sick. I felt horribly and tried to get to her but I couldn't. I don't drive and I was in my hometown which is 4 hours from them. Anyway Sept.7th my wonderfully amazing step mom passed away in my fathers arms as he cried. Now less than 2 years later that POS is already re-married. Says how he found the love of his life all that nonsense. How he ha a new life and loves it. He has gone on vacation 3 times in the past 2 months HOURS away but wont come see his ONLY grandchild. He is now building a pool in his yard but claims he is broke. I mean that isn't a big deal I dont need nor do I want his money. It is just the fact that he has this new life and his kids and grandchild mean nothing now. Just had to get it out.
I'm tattooed,pagan,pro-choice,pro-legalizing marijuana,pro-gay marriage,anti-war,non-vaxing,tree hugging,animal loving,book reading,animal testing free,depression battling, trying to raise a free spirit and letting her be who she is but still teaching her important life lessons,fighting for equal rights at the same time,don't like it get over it.