Dh says I can't expect my 4&6 year olds to pick up after themselves. He even said it's as ridiculous as asking our 9 month old to pick up his toys. I say that out of 5 people I'm the only person doing anything in this house. I cook, clean, pick up dog turds, laundry, trash, clean out cars, do bath and bedtime all on my own! EVERYTHING falls on me. Finally after asking the 4 year old to pick up her toy 47 times I picked it up and threw it in the trash. My husband flipped and said I'm a crazy bitch and we got into a huge fight. So am I crazy or should I expect some help around here? BTW after he told me it's my job to do everything around here I left his dirty clothes in the hamper. We'll see how he likes it on Tuesday when he has no work clothes. I'm sick of doing everything on my own I just need a little help.