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Violent outbursts at preschool

Anonymous
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We have been having issues with my son with violent outbursts at preschool.
Today playing soccer he attacked a kid who scored on him, later at the playground he pushed the same child off the slide, he also scratched a girl, and hit his teacher today.

We have been doing 1-10 ratings every day. 1 good, 10 bad. We have had 7-10 for the last two weeks.

We are sending him to bed right after school, only comming down for dinner.
I just don't know what to do anymore. He starts kindergarten in September. This will just get him kicked out.
I have a referral in to a developmental ped, and my doctor said to wait on getting a shrink involved.
I'm just at a loss.

Next week we are going to pull her out after the first issue. Having to sit on the couch at my parents where I take care of my ill mom..

Any other ideas? He is my first child.
Next step is having hubby stay with the other two and I move out with him
Posted by Anonymous on May. 24, 2013 at 10:44 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 24, 2013 at 10:46 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 10:50 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 24, 2013 at 11:04 PM
Please? Anyone?
mitty18
by Silver Member on May. 24, 2013 at 11:33 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 25, 2013 at 12:30 AM
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Kitschy
by on May. 25, 2013 at 12:32 AM

Do they have snack at preschool? If so do you bring it for him or is it a class snack?

My daughter was having a terrible time in preschool and was usually worse in the afternoons which was after snack. Snack was always filled with dyes and HFCS and all that crap. She started to bring her own dye free snacks and never had an issue again. 

RadnRem
by Gold Member on May. 25, 2013 at 12:33 AM
I don't understand why you would have to move out with him. I'm sure there's more to it, but that seems extreme.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 25, 2013 at 12:42 AM
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My 3 kids go to the same preschool. His twin sister and there little lister (almost 4)...

They all take nutritious food to school, limit sweets. School has a no junk food policy. Kids have to eat fruits/veggies/sandwich before gummies ect


Quoting Kitschy:

Do they have snack at preschool? If so do you bring it for him or is it a class snack?

My daughter was having a terrible time in preschool and was usually worse in the afternoons which was after snack. Snack was always filled with dyes and HFCS and all that crap. She started to bring her own dye free snacks and never had an issue again. 


OhMyBob
by on May. 25, 2013 at 12:43 AM

Honestly? I'd get a pediatric therapist involved ASAP to help narrow down the list of causes. The sooner you start, the sooner you can address the problem. Don't wait until he's in kindergarten or first grade.

People worry so much about getting doctors involved because of a fear of medication, but any good doctor won't medicate first and ask questions later. A specialist will help you pinpoint and address the problem much quicker than if you were to grope around alone.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 25, 2013 at 12:44 AM
In order to have 1:1 parenting


Quoting RadnRem:

I don't understand why you would have to move out with him. I'm sure there's more to it, but that seems extreme.

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