Well, my friend's brother (I've known both if em for years) was hanging out with us when we were talking about it. He's been through a lot in the past so I know idle time isn't always good and he is PHENOMENAL with both my ds and my friend's ds. So, I told him he should come hang with me last night to help out with the boys.
I got up with my friend's ds at 5 and then got up at about 830 for good when both him and my ds were awake. cooked breakfast and fed the kids, now my friend's brother just kicked me back to bed to take a nap while he watches the kids.