I have been putting holes in my BF's condoms. He says he doesn't want any children. But I know He will love the baby once its born and he doesn't ever have to know about the holes. He also has a really good career and my ex doesnt help with my Daughter. This guy is so great and he will be the best Dad. He already treats my daughter like she is his. And before a bunch of you start screaming , People do this all the time so just because most dont admit it dont act like its so strange or unheard of.