My step kids birth mother died
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by
FriendoftheFoot
on May. 25, 2013 at 6:15 PM
That's really sad. I'm sorry :( y'all are in my thoughts.

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on May. 25, 2013 at 6:16 PM
I'm so sorry for their loss. Just keep being the best step mom you can be. It sounds like you already have been doing that.
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on May. 25, 2013 at 6:23 PM
Crazy. I asked my DSS's how they would feel if BM died. They are 16 and 17 and have only seen their mother once since 2001, and have very limited phone contact, all her choice. They just shrugged and said they would be a little sad, but she hasn't been a part of their life for so long it wouldn't change anything.

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on May. 25, 2013 at 6:30 PM
How heartbreaking. Good luck:(
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- SageAdvice
on May. 25, 2013 at 6:14 PMYou tell them she died, you do not tell them she KILLED herself at that age, when you must do so later, do it while they are in counseling with a grief counselor for gods sakes and let the therapist lead the way.