Well damnit if your kid is that allergic to everything then dont bring him to the damn party.
we.ve got tons of family, friends, her friends from school and daycare.
ive got tons of things planned.
and sil expects me to change everything for her precious snow flake of a son who is apperantly allergic to everything on the planet.
i dont even think he has a tenth of the problems she claims he does- i think shes just a nut. although i havent told her that.
she wanted me to move it inside instead of outside because 'being outsite will trigger his allergies'
i told her i was making dd an amazing fudge cake. she said 'well Q is allergic to chocolate. thats not very fair'
i reminded her that there was also going to be vanilla and strawberry cup cakes and that dd wants chocolate cake.
she says 'well its still not fair that he wont get a regular piece of cake. he.ll be stuck with a cupcake with no frosting'
i asked why no frosting and she says hes lactose intolerant.
last night i started making candy for the party and she freaked over my peanut butter balls saying that i cant serve them because hes allergic to peanuts.
now last month this kid had ZERO food allergies.
and when i sent out invites to dds party i specified that i needed to know about food allergies and explained why.
i had two mothers respond. one little boy is allergic to strawberries. and a little girl is diabetic, her mother told me because shes one of the few mothers who cant stay at the party. which is fine. no strawberries. and im diabetic too so i understand. and i have a sugar free equivalent to everything.
but sil marked that there were NO FOOD ALLERGIES.
and now shes saying that i cant serve:
the peanutbutter cookies, the candy or mixed nuts.
or the pinapple 7 up punch
because hes lactose intolerant, allergic to nuts, chocolate, pinapple and carmel.
that i cant have it outside because of his out door allergies.
and that i cant serve chips, poppers, pinwheels, juices and several other things because she doesnt allow him to eat those. she doesnt want him eating the hot dog7 or hamburger7 either.
no. no. no. hell no.
i am not changing this entiRe party for him.
i tried to be understanding and sensitive. but its not possible. to make this party 'safe' for him id have to change every fucking thing and not serve food.
a month ago this kid had no allergies!
sil is mad now. i told her id already made changes to accomodate him. im not changing anything else. she can either watch him and make sure he doesnt eat or touch anything or she can keep him home.