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How do you feel when SO watches porn and masturbates? *EDIT!!!*

Anonymous
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Okay maybe its what hes watching. He's watching daddy - daughter stuff. We're expecting w/ our first too. Does that change anything at all? :/

DH watches porn behind my back a lot. It's not like he's sex deprived! I give it to him whenever he wants it. Just about everyday. Sometimes several times a day. (sorry tmi!) He says i'm really tight and theres nothing wrong with me personally (tmi again sorry!!!) But he still just loves to jack off to porn... How do you girls feel when or if your SO does this? I'm not talking about masturbating in general...I mean the whole porn thing. I've expressed deeply how it hurts me and makes me feel. But it's not enough for him to stop. :-/ It's making me drift away from him. How do you girls feel about this?

 

EDIT:

You ladies really dont feel awkward when DH looks at another girl to get off? I guess I find it rude and when youre married youre supposed to faithful.

And for you girls that are getting snippy with me...I was just asking. I believe in morals.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:52 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:54 PM

Well since he fullfills our sex life to our mutual satisfaction, I have no problems or say on what he does with his own body. I don't own his reproductive organs or sperm. And I have no moral opposition to pornography , and enjoy a little me time too ..


Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:55 PM

He doesn't do either. 

Jessy613
by Diamond Member on May. 26, 2013 at 7:55 PM

popcorn

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:55 PM
Eh. I do it. He does it. Don't care.
KelliansMom
by Platinum Member on May. 26, 2013 at 7:55 PM
Doesn't bug me at all , but we spend more time apart then together and we are honest about things.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:55 PM
Well I'd be turned on, but try as I might, SO isn't into porn. I do it semi regularly, it's nothing against my SO. I just enjoy it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:56 PM
I feel like I'm not good enough for him when he does it.
spooky415
by Ruby Member on May. 26, 2013 at 7:56 PM
I wouldn't care.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:56 PM
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I don't care. 

Sex and masturbating are two separate things to me. The fact that he's completely satisfied sexually with you doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy masturbating too. For many people it's just a comfortable habit and something they like doing.

He's obviously still attracted to you and fulfills you. It would be different if he was ignoring you, but because of that I wouldn't care. 

Abby.N.Amys.Mom
by on May. 26, 2013 at 7:56 PM

I don't feel anything towards it, because in my mind, he doesn't do it.  If he does, then he's very good at hiding it, which is fine by me.

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