Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Mom Confessions Mom Confessions

How do you feel when SO watches porn and masturbates? *EDIT!!!*

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Okay maybe its what hes watching. He's watching daddy - daughter stuff. We're expecting w/ our first too. Does that change anything at all? :/

DH watches porn behind my back a lot. It's not like he's sex deprived! I give it to him whenever he wants it. Just about everyday. Sometimes several times a day. (sorry tmi!) He says i'm really tight and theres nothing wrong with me personally (tmi again sorry!!!) But he still just loves to jack off to porn... How do you girls feel when or if your SO does this? I'm not talking about masturbating in general...I mean the whole porn thing. I've expressed deeply how it hurts me and makes me feel. But it's not enough for him to stop. :-/ It's making me drift away from him. How do you girls feel about this?

 

EDIT:

You ladies really dont feel awkward when DH looks at another girl to get off? I guess I find it rude and when youre married youre supposed to faithful.

And for you girls that are getting snippy with me...I was just asking. I believe in morals.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:52 PM
Replies (21-30):
Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on May. 26, 2013 at 7:59 PM

It makes me feel inadequate. Like they have something that I don't.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on May. 26, 2013 at 7:59 PM

I enjoy when he does it in bed next to me, it gets me in the mood to jump his bones. 

As for him doing it secretly, I hate it. Plus when he starts hiding it is because he is feeling guilty.

thefiregoddess
by Ruby Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:00 PM
This. . Kinda
My SO will go without humpity bumpity for days.. even when i try. .. ill fall asleep for 15 minutes and wake up and he's whacked off ten times.


So I flat out told him he can use his hand all he wants, he's not touching me.

I'm not jealous by any means and i like porn too But he just insults me.

A few days ago I woke up to him whacking off to ghost busters the movie one with the stay puft dude.

Like Jeeze.. I must be worthless.


Quoting Anonymous:

I feel like I'm not good enough for him when he does it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on May. 26, 2013 at 8:00 PM

Wow, I thought I was alone, my husband does the exact same thing. He does satisfy me and all, but I've come to the conclusion that he's going to do it if he wants to and there's nothing I can do stop it. So I decided that my  options were: leave (but really, would that solve anything?) or when he does it, I told him that I don't wanna know about it or wait till I left for the day. Works out fine for me, it could always be worse...he could be cheating.

spooky415
by Ruby Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:00 PM
guilty ;)

Quoting Anonymous:




Quoting spooky415:

I wouldn't care.



that's because you're busy wacking it to my pictures


Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on May. 26, 2013 at 8:00 PM
Since my dh doesn't have sex with me as much as I would like, when he does do thst I feel like crap. Like I dont do it for him anymore. I feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore. Its a very sad hurtful feeling.
TugBoatMama
by on May. 26, 2013 at 8:01 PM

My dh works out of town so he's gone a lot. He's always enjoyed porn so its never bothered me. I know he uses it when he's away, because the guy needs some kind of release if he's not going to get to sleep with me for a few weeks. We have sex every day or every other day when he is at home, but his sex drive is still a lot higher than mine so he will occasionally still use it when he's home and has me around to please him. He just knows I get too busy with the kids and my duties some days. Idk I've just never taken it personally.

Cassidysmom611
by Gold Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:01 PM

DH doesn't watch porn -I actually wish he would lol. It would make me feel better about my viewing. 

But- honestly, I know  whatever I do doesn't hurt our relationship. 

ashleyrenee24
by 2ne1 on May. 26, 2013 at 8:01 PM

I'm a fan of porn so I wouldn't care.

babygirl4326
by Silver Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:01 PM

You too? Lol!!


Quoting laranadtony:

I hide because I know I am next. He used the porn and masturbation to warm up and when he does get to going the second time??? I might as well clear my schedule for a couple of hours.

Years ago, I did not know he did that. I wondered why he lasted so long (and I know some guys do without doing this) , so I asked him. Without hesitation, he told me.



Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)