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How do you feel when SO watches porn and masturbates? *EDIT!!!*

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Okay maybe its what hes watching. He's watching daddy - daughter stuff. We're expecting w/ our first too. Does that change anything at all? :/

DH watches porn behind my back a lot. It's not like he's sex deprived! I give it to him whenever he wants it. Just about everyday. Sometimes several times a day. (sorry tmi!) He says i'm really tight and theres nothing wrong with me personally (tmi again sorry!!!) But he still just loves to jack off to porn... How do you girls feel when or if your SO does this? I'm not talking about masturbating in general...I mean the whole porn thing. I've expressed deeply how it hurts me and makes me feel. But it's not enough for him to stop. :-/ It's making me drift away from him. How do you girls feel about this?

 

EDIT:

You ladies really dont feel awkward when DH looks at another girl to get off? I guess I find it rude and when youre married youre supposed to faithful.

And for you girls that are getting snippy with me...I was just asking. I believe in morals.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:52 PM
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alf2651
by Gold Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:07 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

Eh. I do it. He does it. Don't care.


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OrientalLily
by Platinum Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:07 PM
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I don't have a problem with mine masturbating, but I hate porn. I absolutely hate it. It's gross and degrading - in my personal opinion. I hate that he watches porn. I hate that he watches porn and then jerks off.
I just really dislike porn. And yes, a part of my hate is because I do feel inadequate. I've had kids and no surgery, so my body isn't that great. So, I'm left wondering if he doesn't find me attractive enough. I hate porn!
Lalalie
by Gold Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:08 PM

It turns me on.

armywifey26
by Krissy on May. 26, 2013 at 8:09 PM

It doesn't bother me. It will start to bother me only if it interferes with our sex life and/or marriage. Until then it's all good

Anonymous
by Anonymous 17 on May. 26, 2013 at 8:11 PM

He does it all the time, and lies about it. So i've started lying to him about things:) works well

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by Ruby Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:12 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 18 on May. 26, 2013 at 8:13 PM
Sounds like a wonderful marriage.


Quoting Anonymous:

He does it all the time, and lies about it. So i've started lying to him about things:) works well


Irenesmommy
by Gold Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:15 PM
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we both do it, usually when one or the other of us is out of the house. Not multiple times a day though that just seems exhausting.

elitish
by on May. 26, 2013 at 8:15 PM

I feel the same way he does about when I do it. Doesn't care. As long as it's serving as a supplement and not a substitute, nobody around here gives a crap.

mamabearjkda
by Silver Member on May. 26, 2013 at 8:17 PM

my ex would do that, and it hurt deeply because he didn't take my feelings into consideration. I told him how I felt about it, he assured me wouldn't happen again and time and time it would happen, every time. It wasn't so much the porn, it had to do with it but it was his lack of respect for me and my feelings that made me disgusted with him.

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