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How do you feel when SO watches porn and masturbates? *EDIT!!!*

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Okay maybe its what hes watching. He's watching daddy - daughter stuff. We're expecting w/ our first too. Does that change anything at all? :/

DH watches porn behind my back a lot. It's not like he's sex deprived! I give it to him whenever he wants it. Just about everyday. Sometimes several times a day. (sorry tmi!) He says i'm really tight and theres nothing wrong with me personally (tmi again sorry!!!) But he still just loves to jack off to porn... How do you girls feel when or if your SO does this? I'm not talking about masturbating in general...I mean the whole porn thing. I've expressed deeply how it hurts me and makes me feel. But it's not enough for him to stop. :-/ It's making me drift away from him. How do you girls feel about this?

 

EDIT:

You ladies really dont feel awkward when DH looks at another girl to get off? I guess I find it rude and when youre married youre supposed to faithful.

And for you girls that are getting snippy with me...I was just asking. I believe in morals.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:52 PM
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vegaswife2011
by Emerald Member on May. 26, 2013 at 10:45 PM

Quoting Abby.N.Amys.Mom:

I don't feel anything towards it, because in my mind, he doesn't do it.  If he does, then he's very good at hiding it, which is fine by me.


Lol, yep
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 10:46 PM
I don't care because I do it too.
mommiedearest22
by Bronze Member on May. 26, 2013 at 10:46 PM

Personally IDC, takes him forever to get off by himself though, and then he just wants me more... Sometimes I wish he'd watch it so I could get a break! LOL

villagemamma
by Platinum Member on May. 26, 2013 at 10:47 PM

I dont mind at all. It doesnt effect our sex life and i enjoy watching with him on occasion. I know how much he adores me and does things every single day to show me how much i mean to him

MooBaaLaLaLa80
by Silver Member on May. 26, 2013 at 10:47 PM

 My husband too!  The only thing I can think of when he does it is when he sometimes has a longish shower... 


Quoting Abby.N.Amys.Mom:

I don't feel anything towards it, because in my mind, he doesn't do it.  If he does, then he's very good at hiding it, which is fine by me.


 

anon1986East
by Kali on May. 26, 2013 at 10:48 PM
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He rarely watches porn, and it doesn't bother me. In general I have no issue with porn but I do believe that a relationship needs respect and if one partner does not want porn to be in their relationship then the other person should have enough respect for the person they love to not view it.

wooly
by Knitting Maniac on May. 26, 2013 at 10:48 PM
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 never happened in either of my marriages. What kind of guys are you girls marrying??

Danapopcorn
by AbbyCat on May. 26, 2013 at 10:48 PM

So you can't like porn AND have morals?

hopeym23
by J3 on May. 26, 2013 at 10:49 PM

My ex watched porn behind my back all the time.  It really bothered me.  I begged him to just stop lieing tome about it and he never did.  My DH looks at it and I don't mind (usually) because he is completely honest with me about it.  My ex never stopped and I doubt your DH will either.  Sorry hun.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 10:49 PM
My dh is addicted to porn, so it's a big problem here.
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