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How do you feel when SO watches porn and masturbates? *EDIT!!!*

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Okay maybe its what hes watching. He's watching daddy - daughter stuff. We're expecting w/ our first too. Does that change anything at all? :/

DH watches porn behind my back a lot. It's not like he's sex deprived! I give it to him whenever he wants it. Just about everyday. Sometimes several times a day. (sorry tmi!) He says i'm really tight and theres nothing wrong with me personally (tmi again sorry!!!) But he still just loves to jack off to porn... How do you girls feel when or if your SO does this? I'm not talking about masturbating in general...I mean the whole porn thing. I've expressed deeply how it hurts me and makes me feel. But it's not enough for him to stop. :-/ It's making me drift away from him. How do you girls feel about this?



You ladies really dont feel awkward when DH looks at another girl to get off? I guess I find it rude and when youre married youre supposed to faithful.

And for you girls that are getting snippy with me...I was just asking. I believe in morals.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 26, 2013 at 7:52 PM
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by Meanie Pants on May. 26, 2013 at 10:49 PM
I feel nothing.
by Platinum Member on May. 26, 2013 at 10:50 PM
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What do morals have to do with it?  

He likes to look at pictures and get off.  What's the big deal?  Trust me, he's not admiring her personality or even her.  He's just getting off on the fantasy.  How is that unfaithful?  I can only imagine that being such an uptight prude makes dealing with human nature and just being happy a real pain in the ass.

by on May. 26, 2013 at 10:50 PM

 ehh it is what it is...not like he's watching someone he personally knows

by on May. 26, 2013 at 10:50 PM
I really don't care..
by on May. 26, 2013 at 10:51 PM

Some ladies just are plain bitchy on here so ignore the ones that get snippy. My hubby watches porn when I dont feel like having sex and I dont mind. Before it was hurtful until I asked him what turned him on so much about it and we had a discussion about it. Some men feel a compulsion to watch porn no matter how satisfied they can be with the woman. He probably is addicted.

by on May. 26, 2013 at 10:51 PM

If I am home I feel like I'm not good enough. Just being honest. If I'm away at training or he's away (dual military) I have no complaints. Plus we usually send each other videos lol

by Gold Member on May. 26, 2013 at 10:52 PM
I'm not a fan. I don't think it's natural for my husband to act like a pig, whether ot not he has a penis. He doesn't watch it and if he did, it'd really bother me.
by Gold Member on May. 26, 2013 at 10:53 PM

My dh and I have been married for 15 yrs (together for 16) and normally when he watches porn, I'm watching it with him. And even if he were to watch it when I wasn't home or watching it with him, it really wouldn't bother me at all.

Dobermans are like Potato chips, nobody can have just one!

by on May. 26, 2013 at 10:53 PM
I feel inadequate.
by on May. 26, 2013 at 10:54 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

Lmao. This is me. Dh only does his thing while I'm sleeping. And sometimes I'm just tired and ready for nigh night. thank god for those dirty girls. Lol

Quoting illinoismommy83:

I feel rested when he does it... because it means he is letting me sleep! Thank goodness for those porn chicks. I love sleeping and the last thing I need after a long day is a horny husband who forgot where his hand is.

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