My trashy lazy SIL came over yesterday to let my nephew and my DS play. Well they were having a great time playing in the back yard. Getting a little loud but hey they're kids right? Anyway SIL and I are watching them and just sitting at the picnic table. She keeps yelling and treating DN "Sammy calm down? STOP SCREAMING or I'll smack your ass!!" So I remind her that there's no spanking at my house. Its her kid ,I know , but I don't want to see it . I don't spank. I don't want my son to witness it either. I have taught my kids that hitting is wrong and they need to keep their hands to themselves. I know my SIL is a die hard spanker. She will tell you that spanking is the o my way to raise a kid that's not " a damn brat" and all about picking out a switch at her grandmothers and how just fine she is.. whatever , I don't spank and don't want it at my house.
So Sammy got really loud and SIL jumped out if her seat , grabbed his arm and told him he needs to get a spank she then hauled off and hit him like four or five times. I was so angry. I yelled for her to stop. My son was crying. I talked to him and told him its all okay . He doesn't understand and he's afraid Sam is hurt. He asked why would his mommy hurt him . I told SIL she needs to go. She said I'm an asshole and I'm going to raise a rotten pansy ( whatever that means) I don't really care what she thinks but my son was upset and that I care about. Then last night my MIL called . Seems SIL ran home and called her to tell her I threw her and her son out..ugh !!! I did not throw out my nephew! But since he's not my child I couldn't keep him. Now my MIL is upset with me.