So my son is about to turn 5, he'll be starting school in August. He's been potty trained a little over a yr now (well at my house he's been wearing underwear and basically completely potty trained for over 1.5 years but his dad's family kept him in pull-ups or diapers for several months longer and he didn't use the potty over there because of that) Well he still refuses to wipe after he poops, now he doesn't even tell me when he goes so I can come help him or anything, but the biggest problem now is he is pooping in his underwear, it doesn't seem to bother him what so ever, he doesn't tell us til we find out about it ourselves, and still doesn't care. I don't know what to do at this point. His dad and I don't get along very well, we talk when we absolutely have to but he always lies to me about things (i.e. when I stopped giving DS a pacifier he said he was too and a year later I found out he was still giving him it, same with a bottle, etc) he said he is still doing at his house as well, last August he said DS would go hide somewhere and do it, at that time he wasn't doing it at my house at all. I've tried rewards, bribes, charts, time-outs, etc. He has to clean his underwear every time too.
It seems to happen with me about once a week but as often as 4 times, many times it seems like it happens either the night (before bed) or day after we go out and do something, like last week we went to the zoo with friends, next day he pooped in his pants, week prior that he was here we went fishing with family it happened that night AND the next day again.
Anyone else deal with this?? What'd you do?