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My XH is horrible.

Anonymous
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We divorced 1 yr ago and he is hounding me to get his name off the mortgage. The thing is I don't qualify by myself. I can't tell him this or I may have to sell.  I love this house and I want to keep it, My dad told me that my x can just deal with it. I have no issue making the payments its only because my credit isnt the best. 


WWYD?


Posted by Anonymous on May. 28, 2013 at 5:15 AM
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mommyof11050307
by Platinum Member on May. 28, 2013 at 5:17 AM
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What does your divorce papers say about it?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 28, 2013 at 5:20 AM

They say that I have to refience with out him. Its just that I can't.

Quoting mommyof11050307:

What does your divorce papers say about it?


Cindy18
by on May. 28, 2013 at 5:22 AM

What does your divorce agreement say about taking his name off the mortgage? You only HAVE to do what is in your divorce decree.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 28, 2013 at 5:24 AM

It says that I have to fefinance with out his name.

Quoting Cindy18:

What does your divorce agreement say about taking his name off the mortgage? You only HAVE to do what is in your divorce decree.


mommyof11050307
by Platinum Member on May. 28, 2013 at 5:24 AM
He can take you back to court and make you sell if you don't. Can anyone you know cosign for you?


Quoting Anonymous:

They say that I have to refience with out him. Its just that I can't.

Quoting mommyof11050307:

What does your divorce papers say about it?



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 28, 2013 at 5:24 AM
I would talk to a lawyer and call a couple banks.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 28, 2013 at 5:26 AM
Hes not horrible either he's just trying to free himself of that debt so he can move on.
Cindy18
by on May. 28, 2013 at 5:26 AM

Then you have to do it or sell. If you don't he can take you back to court and you will be in comtempt of court. 

Can your dad co-sign or just put it in his name for you?

Quoting Anonymous:

It says that I have to fefinance with out his name.

Quoting Cindy18:

What does your divorce agreement say about taking his name off the mortgage? You only HAVE to do what is in your divorce decree.



~~CINDY

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 28, 2013 at 5:27 AM

He says he wants to buy his own house but can't......not my problem.

Quoting Anonymous:

Hes not horrible either he's just trying to free himself of that debt so he can move on.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 28, 2013 at 5:28 AM

My lawyer said he doesn't see a loophole. I called 5 diff banks and even talked to a mortgage brooker.

Quoting Anonymous:

I would talk to a lawyer and call a couple banks.


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