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What a white trash mother

Anonymous
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Okay. Well let me start my story off like this. This may be a bit confusing to some people. 15 years ago, my uncle got a girl pregnant. So this girl is my cousin, and 10 years ago my brother got the same girl pregnant, so she is my niece. Which makes my cousin and niece sisters. With all confusion out of the way, I can start explaining the real issue here.

when my niece was a few months old, my brother (who lived next to my mom and me, I was like 17) left my nieces mother, so she tried to commit suacide. Her mother had her put under evaluation at a mental instruction and tried to get temporary custody of my cousin and niece, but the fathers ended up getting tempary custody instead because the woman's mother is a wack job. Well my dumbass brother was living with his grandmother and when he kids mom was coming for visitation, he was sleeping with her. In a sad attempt to regain custody from my brother, she claimed rape, did a rape kit and he lost custody of my niece. But they weren't going to give custody of my niece to the mother, so my grandmother (who was almost 70 then) ended up getting custody. She was granted perminate custody when my niece was 18 months old. And my uncle got full custody of my cousin.

now my niece is 10, and my cousin is 15. My mom helps raise my niece and have a hand in going to school events, like awards ceremonies, and school parties (because my grandmother is too old to be doing all this. My grandmother is very healthy for her age. Gets around good, and she lives off her retirement, and my grandfathers retirement. My brother doesn't pay child support like he is supposed to, and neither does the mom, but my niece is never needing anything. I have never seen a child have so many church dresses, and expensive clothes in my life. For Christmas she gives money to my mom, and my mom does the Christmas shopping, because she knows what my niece likes. Well my mom went and get my niece an iPad for Christmas. 

Well she caught my niece talking to grown men on a dating sight and saw that she was watching porno. Well of corse, my mom went apeshit. Took away the iPad and her laptop for two weeks, she gets it back tomorrow, but it won't have the Internet, or FaceTime, and she set it up for only pg content. (She didn't know how to do it before I showed her) and my grandmother totally backs her up.

my nieces mother (if you want to call her that) is asking my niece where she is learning this from, asking her if she is exposed to this kind of stuff at our house. Hell no, I can tell you, the grandmother is very old fashioned and is very Christian. My mom doesn't allow this, I was raised by the woman, I know how she is. 

I get on Facebook tonight and see pictures (they are currently with their mother) that were apparently taken at her mothers birthday party. There was a lot of drinking, and just about every picture has some young person (from their family, like 18ish) flipping people off with drinks in hand. There's a picture of my niece and cousin sitting right beside them. I am disgusted. If it were up to me, my niece wouldn't go. I know it's really not any of my business, but it's pretty clear what side all this filth is coming from.

my niece isn't shielded at all. We say the occasional "shit" or "damn" around her. We socially drink around her (not heavy, like one or two beers, and never let under aged people drink). And that's not often. I just found out my 15 year old cousin is allowed to smoke. Wtf?

im sorry, but this pisses me off. I'm really not concerned about my cousin. She has her dad to answer to, but my niece is raised a different way, and I think her mom doesn't respect that. If she allows her 15 year old to smoke, does she really care what my niece does over there? Is she watching all these teenage boys around my niece. She befriends her nieces and allows them to bring their friends (the teenagers) and thinks that is dandy

Posted by Anonymous on May. 29, 2013 at 12:08 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 29, 2013 at 12:12 AM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 29, 2013 at 12:13 AM
Are you from alabama?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 29, 2013 at 12:13 AM
She wants to fit in with her mom and sis. Just make her feel loved and valuable. So she knows where she really came from and will know where she wants to go as she gets older.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 29, 2013 at 12:15 AM
Wow... well... Okay then. There is a woman who is basically your aunt and your sister inlaw and has given birth to your cousin and your neice... that's weird
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 29, 2013 at 12:16 AM

Lol, I am, but the family I am speaking of arnt, they are from Georgia. This is actually my stepbrother, but we were raised together.


Quoting Anonymous:

Are you from alabama?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 29, 2013 at 12:17 AM

I know, when this all started, I slapped myself in the forehead and said .. Holy shit, what is wrong with you.

Quoting Anonymous:

Wow... well... Okay then. There is a woman who is basically your aunt and your sister inlaw and has given birth to your cousin and your neice... that's weird


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 29, 2013 at 12:18 AM

Everything about this family says white trash.  I wouldn't tell many people this story, if I were you.  

Mommy2b2many
by on May. 29, 2013 at 12:18 AM
Okay Why are you worried about one child and not the other? And I don't know what to tell ya... That sounds like an all around bad situation....
Aislin
by Platinum Member on May. 29, 2013 at 12:18 AM

Wow ummm

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 29, 2013 at 12:19 AM
If there was ever a white trash award... your family would get it
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