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I am sick of having no privacy!

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I cannot put my phone down without DF picking it up and going through it. If it was just a glance at my texts and calls maybe that would be okay. If it was just the occasional insecurity i'd have no problem. EVERYDAY, EVERY TIME I put down my phone he goes through it. He starts with the texts and calls, then moves on to Facebook. He goes through my messages and notifications. After that its cafemom. He goes to see if I've posted anything, he checks to see what I've said in replies. He reads my messages. I swear I cannot have a thought or an opinion without him knowing about it! I can't vent on here, I can confide in a friend. I'm losing it! I don't have anything to hide. That's not the issue. I just feel like I have no privacy. He knows how I feel. He says it makes me shady. I call bullshit!!

I KNOW YOUR READING THIS WILL! Get out of my head!!

Posted by Anonymous on May. 29, 2013 at 8:13 PM
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Motherof3inNJ
by Gold Member on May. 29, 2013 at 8:15 PM
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I'd go crazy if DF did that.

My question is, what does your DH have to hide? His behavior is unmasking his guilt over something.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 29, 2013 at 8:16 PM
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KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on May. 29, 2013 at 8:16 PM
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It'd make me wonder if I should be doing the same to him.. 

Usually the guilty are insecure..

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 29, 2013 at 8:17 PM

control freak red flag, jeeze.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 29, 2013 at 8:17 PM
That's what I've wondered. It is seriously driving me crazy.

Quoting Motherof3inNJ:

I'd go crazy if DF did that.

My question is, what does your DH have to hide? His behavior is unmasking his guilt over something.

Mrs.Missi
by punk rock princess on May. 29, 2013 at 8:18 PM
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Bad Will!!! Put her phone down or I'll kick you in the BALLS!!!!Lol!
cerainwondrland
by on May. 29, 2013 at 8:19 PM
Let her breathe Will!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 29, 2013 at 8:20 PM
I've recently caught him deleting texts. Like just a huge chunk of a conversation is missing to where it didn't make any sense. He said it was just "so I didn't get mad"..... Wtf was he talking about that would make me mad? He didn't like that. I never got an answer.
Quoting KristenFowles:

It'd make me wonder if I should be doing the same to him.. 


Usually the guilty are insecure..

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Val99
by on May. 29, 2013 at 8:21 PM
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I couldn't live that way.

KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on May. 29, 2013 at 8:22 PM

 Red flags..

But you know this.

Quoting Anonymous:

I've recently caught him deleting texts. Like just a huge chunk of a conversation is missing to where it didn't make any sense. He said it was just "so I didn't get mad"..... Wtf was he talking about that would make me mad? He didn't like that. I never got an answer.
Quoting KristenFowles:

It'd make me wonder if I should be doing the same to him.. 


Usually the guilty are insecure..

 

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