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Men can't handle being horny

Anonymous
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And my SO just proved me right this evening.

I am now 4 weeks PP and REALLY was excited about the idea of waiting so long to have sex again because I knew it would make the first time we did it again that much better from not having orgasmed in so long. So I asked my SO to wait with me. He agreed.

Two nights ago, I walk in on him masterbating to porn. I got a little upset, but let it go. I made him promise me he'd wait now that he had pleasured himself. He agreed.

10 minutes ago, walked in on him watching porn and masterbating again. REALLY?! He couldn't hold out even 2 days?? Who knows! He may have masterbated yesterday too!!

It's just frustrating because I don't feel like men can handle being horny. That's honestly why I think they cheat. And I just don't get it. Just because I haven't had sex in a few weeks doesn't mean I'm freaking bursting at the seams and HAVE to relase myself. I'm perfectly fine! Why can men not handle it??

Ugh. Sorry, had to vent. I'm kind of upset.

Posted by Anonymous on May. 31, 2013 at 3:43 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 31, 2013 at 3:45 AM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 31, 2013 at 3:47 AM
Yep. Sick lil weirdos...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 31, 2013 at 3:48 AM

mine has stayed in the bathroom for HOURS watching porn. I think they do cheat, honestly.

krayzbabylove
by on May. 31, 2013 at 3:48 AM
sorry.
CV3
by on May. 31, 2013 at 3:49 AM
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The first time I had sex after giving birth was downright painful. But hey good for you.

I dont understand why your mad at him for masturbating. Poor guy hasnt gotten any in how long? You really expected him to have no release at all until you were ready to have sex again? That just sounds mean.

Bottom line though....masterbating is nothing like sex. He could masterbate every single day and it would still be awesome to have sex again because he hasnt been inside a vagina forever.

CMcLaws
by Platinum Member on May. 31, 2013 at 3:49 AM
You think all men cheat?

Quoting Anonymous:

mine has stayed in the bathroom for HOURS watching porn. I think they do cheat, honestly.

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by Anonymous 4 on May. 31, 2013 at 3:50 AM

In all things in life men have less impulse control. It has to do with the sections of the brain they use more actively compared to the sections of the brain we use more actively. I feel like an ass because I learned about it in school and should be ale to explain it in a more educated way to you haha. Basically IMO when I compare the two scans men look a little more primitive than us.... Sh

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 31, 2013 at 3:51 AM


not all. ones that can't control themselves I am suspicious of.

Quoting CMcLaws:

You think all men cheat?

Quoting Anonymous:

mine has stayed in the bathroom for HOURS watching porn. I think they do cheat, honestly.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 31, 2013 at 3:52 AM


I'm not MAD at him for masterbating. I'm upset that he promised he would wait and then broke his promise TWICE. Masterbating is a very natural thing, which is why I didn't get upset too much when he did the first time. Also, I just don't like porn. And he knows it.

Quoting CV3:

The first time I had sex after giving birth was downright painful. But hey good for you.

I dont understand why your mad at him for masturbating. Poor guy hasnt gotten any in how long? You really expected him to have no release at all until you were ready to have sex again? That just sounds mean.

Bottom line though....masterbating is nothing like sex. He could masterbate every single day and it would still be awesome to have sex again because he hasnt been inside a vagina forever.



cntrdmom
by Sapphire Member on May. 31, 2013 at 3:53 AM
Sex and sexual release is so different for man and woman. I can't explain it enough to satisfy some people but they have a different type of need I think. Same need but in a different way. I think he shouldn't have agreed and then went behind your back. He should've been honest at first and told you he couldn't do it.
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