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having my ex's baby

Anonymous
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So my ex wants me to have his baby. We have one together and he wants his children to have the same mom.
He wants to get a contract that states
He will take care of my expenses for the first year so I can stay at home.
He will only pay 1000 in cs
The child has to have his last name
He wants me to move to a better school district. He will buy the house.
If the baby is a girl he wants me to consider naming her Selena.
He gets joint custody.
Yes he is serious. He is catholic and we are still technically married. He doesn't want a divorce or get remarried, but refuses to have children out of wedlock. Is it crazy I am considering this?
He is a great dad and loves kids.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:28 AM
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gigis1
by on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:29 AM
This is a whole lot of confusing.
Do YOU want to have a child with him?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:32 AM
Would there be any way you two could work things out and get back together? I don't think I would like that arrangement with not being together.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:34 AM
I want more kids, but was going to wait and go to the sperm bank.
This would be an upside. My kids have the same father.

Quoting gigis1:

This is a whole lot of confusing.

Do YOU want to have a child with him?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:35 AM
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O_o dafuk did I just read. Lol
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:37 AM

I would do it.

babyfever2011
by Bronze Member on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:38 AM
This:


Quoting Anonymous:

O_o dafuk did I just read. Lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:40 AM
Not a chance in hell. We made each other miserable. Well he made me miserable. I am sure he would love the chance of us working it out but he drove me crazy.
He tried to micromanage my life. He said the only thing I am good at is cooking and being a mom. I make beautiful babies and always put our child first.
We are pretty good friends now. Space is a must.

Quoting Anonymous:

Would there be any way you two could work things out and get back together? I don't think I would like that arrangement with not being together.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:41 AM
Bump!
xoch86
by Gold Member on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:44 AM

Ehh.. I dunno.. I feel like this can go all sorts of wrong..

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 3, 2013 at 1:44 AM
My ex wants me to give him another baby so his kids will have the same mother.


Quoting Anonymous:

I would do it.

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